男生看女生确实一般看颜值加身材，但女生看男生更注重别的。我读到一些恋爱专家的文章说他收到很多相貌英俊男生的询问信，抱怨说为什么自己这么英俊却勾搭不到妹纸，为什么有的男生颜值低身边的妹纸却很漂亮，觉得肯定对方是富二代而女生都贪图富贵。Recently, a guy contacted me and asked, “Dan, I’m good looking, but can’t get a girlfriend. I don’t get it. Why do so many ugly, fat guys get hot girlfriends but I can’t? People tell me I’m good looking, but women just aren’t interested in me. Why? Why can’t I get a girlfriend?”
恋爱专家就语重心长地说：虽然有的女生只喜欢英俊男生，但这只是少数派。多数女生更重视外貌之外的品质，例如自信心，是否和她沟通愉快，让她相处时感觉开心，是否让她觉得自己很有女人味，工作是否有上进心，是否有好人缘等等。说的挺有道理的！
Most women (not all) don’t select a guy purely based on his looks.
Most women are seeking more important, useful traits in a man such as confidence, charisma, the ability to make her laugh, the potential to do well in life, the ability to make her feel girly in response to his masculinity and the ability to be respected by other men and get along with people in general.
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