【婚姻家庭】sleepless night, cold war with husband.
It’s early hours
in the morning, yet I can’t sleep, kept tossing and turning in bed, in the end I
decided to take it on my laptop and vent it out on huasing. Hopefully
afterwards I can have a restful sleep.
Some background
info:
I have been
married for 4 years now, daughter is 1.5 years old. Hubby is a stay-at-home dad while I work to
support the family, rather unconventional right? No choice, cause I have a more stable income
while my hubby was self-employed and he could barely support himself sometimes. It was a hard decision, not only for me, but was
also a blow to my hubby’s ego. Though
husband should always be the head of the family, who provides for and protects
the family, in my case I have to make most of the decisions in the house. I don’t really enjoy being in command, I
would rather have a more capable/domineering husband who takes charge of the
household, but well I married this one.
There are a lot
of quarrels in the first two
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楼主的英文表达在中国人里真的是很好了
婚姻我也不知道给你什么建议好,只能说其实华人的离婚率虽然比西方国家低,但是婚姻质量普遍都不高。大部分人也都是在将错就错,为了孩子也不能说分开就分开。
现在你需要老公照顾孩子,老公需要你赚钱养家,你们离开对方暂时都不能生活的更好,不建议离。把养育孩子当成一个project,把lg当作唯一的teammate, focus on 把娃健康快乐养大,不知不觉人生就可以这么过去了呢。
加油!
现在你需要老公照顾孩子,老公需要你赚钱养家,你们离开对方暂时都不能生活的更好,不建议离。把养育孩子当成一个project,把lg当作唯一的teammate, focus on 把娃健康快乐养大,不知不觉人生就可以这么过去了呢。
加油!