To be honest, there are very few female doctors (i mean at least consultant level) in O&G department in NUH. Because you want to fix a doctor from the beginning which means you need to pay under "private" category, the doctor will be at least consultant.

Forget about male doctors and female non-Chinese doctors. There are two female Chinese consultants, Dr Su Lin Lin and Dr (Prof) Mary Raff. Personally I know Dr Su very well and I suggest you can go and see her. She speaks fluent Chinese and is a very easy-going person. I have two friends who approached Dr Su as their consultant as well. Prof Raff is more senior and experienced, but she does not speak Chinese at all. She is a very reputable doctor.

Hope you will find the info helpful.

during operation male doctors are better in making decisions and they also have more strength.

Whereas for obstetrician, females are better in terms of communicating with patients.

She is a little serous I agree. So far I have never heard her speaking Chinese.

er..because i study this, so i can understand.

But communication with your doctor is very important, especially for new mummy. Dont force yourself to understand if you feel unconfortable.