it is so scaring!!!! tell me what to do pls~~~i met a band who were playing music on the street. I loved the music very much. But the CD is very expensive. So I just watched for a while, and put some coins and left while they had a break. Later I decided to take a short vedio of them. So I went back to take my camera. When I was back there again, they've already started to play again. There were 5 of them, out of which 4 guys were playing, and 1 guy is promoting the musical CD. The time my camera automatic saved the video after several minutes, they announced a break again. And I was going to leave becuase I've got what I want. And 2 guys approached me, very friendly, said that if I want to take some photos with them. I said yes, of course. And I started to take photos with them. And 3 of them kept on asking more their own photos with me only. And one guy started to chat with me, and at last asked me for a cup of tea, maybe. And i started to lie,--I said i have meeting later, and i was meeting with my friends in school, blur blur...finally he asked whether he could walk me to school. I said, yeah. We chatted along the road, and he's a nice guy. Later he asked for my handphone number. i said i don't have one, --i only have a telephone in our flat(i regreted immediately after i said that)...anyhow i gave him the tele no. at last. and I said i really need to go coz my friends were waiting(a lie)....at that time he was already holding my hands,--oh God! i don't know when he started to hold my hands, and i felt it so natural that i even didn't notice! (luckily i was wearing a pair of gloves at that time). And then there came the last astonishing thing i've ever met, when we decided to say goodbye, he asked very nicely, "can i give u a kiss?" Gesus! I said no at once, of course with a smile. I was crowded with people on the street at that time, --but fornaturely there were no familiar friends there, otherwise....and he promised that he'll call me late at night(coz i said i won't be at home until later at night). i hope he won't. anyhow i don't really want to have further relation with this person. he's too fast. i should lied to him that i had a boyfriend when he asked whether i go out with someone(instead of asking whether i have a boyfriend). I hope tonight all the flatmates and friends from other flats come to use the telephone in our flats, and keep the line busy so that he won't get through. And they will be astonished if they found out someone's calling me....and they'll start to make fun of me, oh, i know what...and they won't stop unitl my face is toally red, and will keep on talking about it the next day, and the next day,,,and maybe even asked him to visit our flat!...i know they'll do that,and seriously....Gesus, i can't imagine... what a stupid mistake i've made....and i even don't know his name!(and of course he knew mine coz he asked for it).....after saying goodbye, i ran to school all the way. it was like somebody's running after me. I rushed to the library and logined in one pc, and came to huasing for help....i really really don't know what to do, and i want to end everthing as soon as possible....i'm happy with all my friends here so far and i'm not interested to have any more, at least not in this way....
anybody, somebody, everybody,,,help......
:'(
[我不出名我怕谁 (12-6 21:49, Long long ago)]
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wait for advice online(sorry,can't type chinese)[我不出名我怕谁 (12-6 21:50, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]2楼
。。。先跟你flatmates说好，当然你要坦白。
如果真是朋友的话，起起哄就算了，不会真的象你说的邀请他来的。。。
以后吸取教训，别随便跟陌生人搭讪了。。
[小蹦 (12-6 22:09, Long long ago)]
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(引用 小蹦:。。。先跟你flatmates说好，当然你要坦白。 如果真是朋友的话，起起哄就算了，不会真的象你说的邀请他来的。。。 以后吸取教训，别随便...)but how about the other person?i don't want to answer his call....[我不出名我怕谁 (12-6 22:19, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]4楼
(引用 我不出名我怕谁:but how about the other person?i don't want to answer his call....)让你的flatmate帮你啊。就说你不在。
我觉得那个男的就是找乐子的，你几次不接他的电话就应该不会再打来了，他不会浪费时间的吧。。如果真的是对你一见钟情，再加上他真的特别特别痴情，那这也算是对他的一种考验了哈，你就考验他个一年半载的吧。（不过可能性是0.00000000001%吧）:)
好运好运~~[小蹦 (12-6 22:25, Long long ago)]
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(引用 小蹦:让你的flatmate帮你啊。就说你不在。 我觉得那个男的就是找乐子的，你几次不接他的电话就应该不会再打来了，他不会浪费时间的吧。。如果�...)thanks[我不出名我怕谁 (12-6 22:46, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]6楼
没兴趣就直说好了老打电话骚扰就叫警察好了. 有什么难的?
or 找你们 flat 的管理员么 [西蜀霸王 (12-6 22:46, Long long ago)]
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(引用 西蜀霸王:没兴趣就直说好了老打电话骚扰就叫警察好了. 有什么难的? or 找你们 flat 的管理员么 )haha, exact the same answer as one of my friends:)[我不出名我怕谁 (12-6 22:53, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]8楼
(引用 西蜀霸王:没兴趣就直说好了老打电话骚扰就叫警察好了. 有什么难的? or 找你们 flat 的管理员么 )u r right, i think i'll just say noi'm just scaring myself (as my friend said)...this's the 1st time, so i don't know what to do....verything will be fine if i say no. thanks for ur advice.[我不出名我怕谁 (12-6 22:54, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]9楼
(引用 我不出名我怕谁:haha, exact the same answer as one of my friends:))it's quite standard way to deal such kind ofharassment in sinagpore...
i guess most ppmm know it ;)[西蜀霸王 (12-6 22:57, Long long ago)]
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(引用 西蜀霸王:it's quite standard way to deal such kind ofharassment in sinagpore...
i guess most ppmm know it ;))hehe,but i'm not in singapore:)
but of course i still say no. this applies everywhere i guess.
[我不出名我怕谁 (12-6 23:04, Long long ago)]
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ft, naieve(?) means "bai chi"?[我不出名我怕谁 (12-6 23:05, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]12楼
emmgotta be real pathetic reacting this way,,,,i mean,posting on line...showing off or what.First time approached by a guy?He did nothing wrong.Just relax,no big deal.You know you sound so hilarious.hehehe[黑删老妖 (12-6 23:44, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]13楼
(引用 黑删老妖:emmgotta be real pathetic reacting this way,,,,i mean,posting on line...showing off or what.First time approached by a guy?He di...)em,sorry if this post make u uncomfortable:)
show off? :p
at least i feel comfortable now.
going home....
and Merry Christmas to all!
btw, I received some presents last night in my shoe!(i put my shoe out of my door last night,hehe) so far i don't know who put the presents, will ask my friends tonight:)[hahata (12-6 23:51, Long long ago)]
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(引用 hahata:em,sorry if this post make u uncomfortable:)
show off? :p
at least i feel comfortable now.
going home....
and Merry Christmas t...)hmmgood to hear that.you ain't made me uncomfortable as I was just trying to make fun of you.sorry about that,yo.
just wondering whether u r someone sooooo attractive make people fall in love ,or u so ugly that nobody approached u that way thru out your whole life.I know is non of my business.But still curious.[黑删老妖 (12-7 0:01, Long long ago)]
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搞不懂你的用意。如题，既然想拒绝，直接说"如何拒绝无聊男子纠缠"就好了嘛，用不着时间地点人物原因经过结果讲得这么详细，末了还峰回路转喊一句help，实在很……做作，让人怀疑你的目的只是想show off一下这段"艳遇"，况且地球人都知道真想拒绝的话就不予理睬嘛，摆这么一篇post上来除了丢自己脸和赚点击率我不知道还有什么效果，很无奈的是我竟然真的点了还回了贴，真没用啊自己。
严重同意楼下黑删老妖的观点。[失手劈错人 (12-8 3:44, Long long ago)]
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(引用 失手劈错人:搞不懂你的用意。如题，既然想拒绝，直接说"如何拒绝无聊男子纠缠"就好了嘛，用不着时间地点人物原因经过结果讲得这么详细，末了还峰回路...)你这人怎么这样讲话啊。有些事情大家心照就好，你讲这么明白叫人家小MM怎么下台？[11点50分 (12-8 4:05, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]17楼
(引用 11点50分:你这人怎么这样讲话啊。有些事情大家心照就好，你讲这么明白叫人家小MM怎么下台？)“有些事情大家心照就好”——还是您会讲话！[眠石 (12-8 4:34, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]18楼
教你几招绝的：1。拼命咳嗽，说非典到现在还没好。
2。拼命打喷嚏，说刚从福建一带来。
哦，上次我朋友是装同性恋，说很好玩。本人猜想她们因为太漂亮，早已经习惯陌生人的搭讪，资格也很老练。漂亮美眉对这种事实在太司空见惯了。上次无意中一堆人交流，办法一大堆，忘了～～[全力 (12-8 4:45, Long long ago)]
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我看了所有的回帖才醒悟过来原来你是女的？[留名 (12-8 17:21, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]20楼