(引用 小鱼镜:空空空！悟空。)难道这就是：传说中的神经：）[紧跟恬淡 (9-27 0:51, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]61楼
(引用 materialist:错过的就不是能够在当时得到的。因此必然错过。正所谓：如果已知p不是q的充分条件，那么p绝对不是q的充分条件。)我觉得楼主应当祝福他／她。这样是好的。[materialist (9-27 2:00, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]62楼
(引用 hula:感情要是真好怎么会分手？)我觉得还是有可能的[九妹 (9-29 0:03, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]63楼
时间还是有作用的解药的，pat～[雪莉bb (9-29 10:21, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]64楼
try to get him back lordo it or stop thinking about it~
:P[小土 (10-3 3:31, Long long ago)]
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(引用 小土:try to get him back lordo it or stop thinking about it~ :P)人家都结婚了哦，难道当小二也行？[clark (10-3 16:31, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]66楼
(引用 小土:try to get him back lordo it or stop thinking about it~ :P)强阿[pinkhil (10-3 18:19, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]67楼
唉典型的吃了吐。
你可以看看一点关于选择理论的书籍。
wikipedia上 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Choice_theory
The Ten Axioms of Choice Theory
1. The only person whose behavior we can control is our own.
2. All we can give another person is information.
3. All long-lasting psychological problems are relationship problems.
4. The problem relationship is always part of our present life.
5. What happened in the past has everything to do with what we are today, but we can only satisfy our basic needs right now and plan to continue satisfying them in the future.
6. We can only satisfy our needs by satisfying the pictures in our Quality World.
7. All we do is behave.
8. All behavior is Total Behavior and is made up of four components: acting, thinking, feeling and physiology
9. All Total Behavior is chosen, but we only have direct control over the acting and thinking components. We can only control our feeling and physiology indirectly through how we choose to act and think.
10. All Total Behavior is designated by verbs and named by the part that is the most recognizable
我学到的感受，自己的快乐自己掌控，忘记过去，关注现在，让自己现在更快乐，理性引导建立快乐的未来。[fool (10-12 13:39, Long long ago)]
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(引用 clark:人家都结婚了哦，难道当小二也行？)行你请我愿就行
[木头上面一张嘴 (10-12 13:41, Long long ago)]
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听到他要结婚，觉得很开心，感觉终于可以彻底和这个人没关系了，那种解脱的开心真好呵呵，曾经深爱了6年多的那个人和现在的这个人完全不一样，现在的他，是陌生的
或许他一直都是这样的，只是偶尔掩饰了而已，抑或是自己忽略了而已
不愿让自己太悲哀，所以，当作这个人换了而已
而现在的这个人，自己不认识了
不能和现在的他彻底分开的话，自己会死掉的
所以，现在，听到他要结婚，自己的伤心只有一点点儿，这一点点也是因为他和曾经那个自己爱的人长的相似而已---突然发现自己这么绝情，呵呵
终于可以和他没了关系，很开心
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(引用 小土:try to get him back lordo it or stop thinking about it~ :P)一个巴掌拍不响阿本来难度就很大，如果只是一个人努力，另一个人天天来唱反调，那就等于没戏。[小鱼镜 (10-16 12:53, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]71楼
(引用 小鱼镜:怎么办啊？结婚不是闹着玩的，我知道离婚很难，可是痛苦好难摆脱，不想每天都过这样的日子，走了很久也走不出去，大家有什么好的办法么？)let time do the healing[pinkhil (11-11 16:21, Long long ago)] [ 传统版 | sForum ][登录后回复]72楼