【婚姻家庭】平生第一次觉得无能为力，命运面前人如此渺小无力，对未来失去了很多期待
最近刚知道二姐夫患上了尿毒症，在国内的妈妈和姐姐她们一堆人都很紧张。稍微对这个有些了解的人都知道这个病唯一的治疗方法就是换肾，在此之前需要不断的透析以维持生命。我自信自己一向乐观坚毅，但面对此事仍然难以觉得接受，我真希望这只是一个恶梦而已，甚至时间能退回到过去他健康的时候能多好。明知这就是现实，却还是难以接受和面对。
二姐夫爱吃各种垃圾食品，不爱运动，无论是对大姐夫喜欢的大众运动篮球足球还是我钟爱的射箭射击潜水冲浪等活动一律没有兴趣，不要说参与，他连看都没有兴趣。他自己开了一个会展公司，没请多少人，很多事都自己亲自过问，工作经常很疲惫。我妈妈就是医生，非常清楚他这样很不健康，对他说过无数次要他注意保养身体养成健康生活习惯，他都不听，让他体检给他看那一堆因肥胖引起的脂肪肝等数据他也没有真正去重视，直到确诊了他才后悔不已泪流满面。
他才三十不到，儿子才四岁，我二姐大学毕业后工作了两年嫁给他以后就没有出去工作了，很大原因是因为他对我二姐太好，让她别出去工作怕她累怕带不好小孩。现代女性不出去工作的后果也似乎是很明显的，我总感觉她慢慢变
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命运面前，我们有时并不能做些什么
这个现实让你一定很难过，抱抱吧。
二姐夫的生活习惯就是他家人对他的态度，他延续他家人对他的态度对待自己，这种情况外人怎么劝都没用，除非某个重大事件让他感觉到家人真正爱他关心他，他才会开始爱自己，或者他自己痛定思痛懂得要爱自己。尿毒症可能是个契机。
你二姐有一个这么心疼她的老公是她的幸福，你们家人这么关心你二姐夫是你二姐夫的幸福，你有这么奋不顾身的妈妈是你的幸福。
幸福的事是幸福的事，不开心的事是不开心的事，怀着对幸福的感恩去处理不开心的事会让自己更有力量。
祝福你！
After long enough of being alone
Everyone must face their share of loneliness
In my own time nobody knew
The pain I was goin' through
And waitin' was all my heart could do
Hope was all I had until you came
Maybe you can't see how much you mean to me
You were the dawn breaking the night
The promise of morning light
Filing the world surrounding me
When I hold you
Baby, Baby
Feels like maybe things will be all right
Baby, Baby
Your love's made me
Free as a song singin' forever
Only yesterday when I was sad
And I was lonely
You showed me the way to leave
The past and all it's tears behind me
Tomorrow may be even brighter than today
Since I threw my sadness away
Only Yesterday
二姐夫的生活习惯就是他家人对他的态度，他延续他家人对他的态度对待自己，这种情况外人怎么劝都没用，除非某个重大事件让他感觉到家人真正爱他关心他，他才会开始爱自己，或者他自己痛定思痛懂得要爱自己。尿毒症可能是个契机。
你二姐有一个这么心疼她的老公是她的幸福，你们家人这么关心你二姐夫是你二姐夫的幸福，你有这么奋不顾身的妈妈是你的幸福。
幸福的事是幸福的事，不开心的事是不开心的事，怀着对幸福的感恩去处理不开心的事会让自己更有力量。
祝福你！
After long enough of being alone
Everyone must face their share of loneliness
In my own time nobody knew
The pain I was goin' through
And waitin' was all my heart could do
Hope was all I had until you came
Maybe you can't see how much you mean to me
You were the dawn breaking the night
The promise of morning light
Filing the world surrounding me
When I hold you
Baby, Baby
Feels like maybe things will be all right
Baby, Baby
Your love's made me
Free as a song singin' forever
Only yesterday when I was sad
And I was lonely
You showed me the way to leave
The past and all it's tears behind me
Tomorrow may be even brighter than today
Since I threw my sadness away
Only Yesterday
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