召唤我们无敌可爱，绝世美丽的版主妹妹来锁贴～～

可以理解楼主地感受，我也是在。。。。我也是在ｓｇｃｈｉｎｅｓｅ发征婚贴，没见过几个人。。不过邮件收到不少，形形色色的人都有。。真诚的。。虚伪的。。有风度的。。没度量的。。试试看的。。太多太多。。 有些人是目的性的。。有些人士随性的。。 其实扪心自问，那位男士，那位女士对会跟自己过小半辈子的人没有要求，没有憧憬呢？其实也未必是要求。。现在的人早已经不太相信亚当夏娃的童话，其实不过是寻找适合的人。 我觉得楼主很诚恳！世界上本来就有千万种人。。。

Sharing: My experience of online datingDISCLAIMER: THE FOLLOWING STATEMENTS ARE ONLY MY PERSONAL POINT OF VIEW, THEY ARE NOT REPRESENTATIVE IN ANY WAY. NO OFFENCES ARE INTENDED. =============================================================================================================== Since we are living in a cyber world now, i thought there is a fair chance to meet Mr. Right online, plus i know a few friends who testimonied that true love could be found online. So i wrote a rough introduction about myself and my expectation for the boyfriend-to-be and posted it on two websites www.sgchinese.com.sg/bbs and www.huasing.org. The viewers of these two websites are mainly chinese, i mean mainland chinese, like myself. I thought that birds of the same feather flock together, maybe a Chinese man would suit me better than a foreigner. By the way, I have also applied SDU membership, but wasn't keen to join any activities or meet any guys there. After the ads were posted, I have received quite a lot of re (more...)

以为自己找到了, 但是好难......最近见了一个男生, 很有好感, 可以算是一拍即合吧, 而且他也很喜欢我. PS 比我矮一点. 但是他就要去美国读书一年了, 我们都很犹豫到底是否要对这段感情付出. 其实和他聊天很久了, 但是一直没有出来见面, 就是因为他要去美国了所以就临走前见了一面,谁知道一面变成了好多面. 但是他要出国学习, 我们没有什么时间在一起了,所以现在就挺尴尬的. 他不要我等他, 大概也是不想自己有太大的思想包袱, 而我也觉得一年内不知道会发生什么事情. 所以就决定暂时把这份感情搁在一边, 约好一年后如果彼此都单身那就继续发展我们的姻缘, 不然就是有缘无分了. 不知道为何觉得内心还是有点伤感, 虽然对他认识不深, 但就是很想和他在一起的感觉, 可惜他现在对爱情处于怀疑阶段, 所以很忧郁做出任何决定. 就看一年后如何了..... 人是找到了, 但是天时地利不和啊. 命运真是捉弄人啊

哈哈。。。如果我没有猜错，那位去美国的男孩子是楼下跟贴者之一？sigh, 女人呀。。。

一年也不长，只可惜我们的青春也不长！不过别急！是你的是你的就是你的。。如果是真的爱情，就相信爱情！谁也没办法把你们分开。。如果不是你的。。我觉得。。。多着急，多心痛都没有用。。平常心吧。。

ah-cat，考虑下九哥？他的旋外之音我都听出来liao！

跟他一起去啊！为了爱情私奔！值得！

good writing reflecting the discrepancy of Ideal and Realitythe only way is to make sure what we want and then keep trying.

骨子里就透出那种女强人的气质，在华语论坛整这么大段英文，看得真累估计形成今天这种个性，你自己也不想。说实话，绝大多数出色的男人不喜欢你这种的，一起工作，创业什么的，还行，一起生活--累。不过还是祝福你一下，愿你找到好姻缘。

the beauty of diversityWhat an interesting article to read. First let me apologize for not reading every reply in this thread. (BTW, I don’t find the interface of huasing very user friendly, especially when reading the replies; and I hate sgchinese too, as it keeps freezing my firefox.) I wish I could have followed this thread since it was posted, but, too bad, I just came back to Singapore about a month ago. And maybe it’s my problem, but I have visited this page many times and this thread didn’t catch my attention until today. Well, it’s probably my bad, as I simply ignored all ‘ding zhi’s assuming that they are all advertisements. Now, before I give my comments, let me briefly share my experiences during the past 4 weeks in Singapore on, of course, the so-called online dating. I’m honored to get a chance to meet about 10 nice ladies, all through huasing. Well, some may find it a very small sample, especially those like bbcat who may have received over 100 letters; but to me, it’s a fantasti (more...)

突然想到。。。 曾经有个朋友对我说过，很多女生吃饭，穿衣，买东西都那么挑，到找男朋友或者老公的时候怎么可能不挑！ 后来想想的确如此，而且现在是供方市场，感觉任何一个女生周围都有一大堆跃跃欲试的男生，她们不挑，岂不是对不起自己！ 不知道是男人的悲哀，还是女人的悲哀。。。 PS：只是突然想到的，和LZ没有关系，不是针对LZ，呵呵。。。

The article is well written. Thanks for sharing.I can see you are a sincere person. I wish to make friends with you. If you like, you can contact me by email hairong04@hotmail.com. Good luck for your searching of BF.

There is nothing wrong to be shorter or youngerMarried, boring, or insincere guys are not accepted. But I dont think short and young guys are unacceptable . Many great man are not tall at all, such as napoleon, Deng xiao ping. ( the most important part of the body is above the neck) Younger is not sin to be a man, in current world, more and more young guys become mature enough at their young age. They knew much better than some "old" guys. In fact, I do encourage girls who could not find their Mr.Right at this time, dont set so high standards to the fellow men. Instead of outside appearance, you need to see the inside beautify of the man. Be a smart girl, find your dream guy who really cares you and loves you and will die for you . FYI, I am 25, married , I am not the kind of man in any categories you referred. And I do wish everyone can find their dream guy and girl in their life.