Sharing: My experience of online datingDISCLAIMER:
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Since we are living in a cyber world now, i thought there is a fair chance to meet Mr. Right online, plus i know a few friends who testimonied that true love could be found online. So i wrote a rough introduction about myself and my expectation for the boyfriend-to-be and posted it on two websites www.sgchinese.com.sg/bbs and www.huasing.org. The viewers of these two websites are mainly chinese, i mean mainland chinese, like myself. I thought that birds of the same feather flock together, maybe a Chinese man would suit me better than a foreigner. By the way, I have also applied SDU membership, but wasn't keen to join any activities or meet any guys there.
After the ads were posted, I have received quite a lot of re (more...)
I should recommend this article to my friend, hehe
I truely think at your age or my age, the chance of having a man who is both nice and available is very small. The only possibility is that such man:
1. breaks up with his gf or divorces with his wife.
2. the termination of the relationship is not due to his own problem. Maybe the woman didn't realize that he is a nice man, or the two persons simply didn't fit.
3. he is ready to pick up another relationship with others. Some people choose to cool down for a period...
4. you apear in front of him, in the right place, at the right moment.
5. MOST importantly, he must be attracted by you.
The 5 conditions above must all be satisfied! See how hard it is?
I also have two good female friends (both are my middle school ex-classmates) who are facing the problem you mentioned. Both of them are attractive ladies, quite successful in their career, and have good family background. However, they both feel very hard to find their Mr. Right. One of them is still trying hard, and the other is almost giving up...
1. breaks up with his gf or divorces with his wife.
2. the termination of the relationship is not due to his own problem. Maybe the woman didn't realize that he is a nice man, or the two persons simply didn't fit.
3. he is ready to pick up another relationship with others. Some people choose to cool down for a period...
4. you apear in front of him, in the right place, at the right moment.
5. MOST importantly, he must be attracted by you.
The 5 conditions above must all be satisfied! See how hard it is?
I also have two good female friends (both are my middle school ex-classmates) who are facing the problem you mentioned. Both of them are attractive ladies, quite successful in their career, and have good family background. However, they both feel very hard to find their Mr. Right. One of them is still trying hard, and the other is almost giving up...
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