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吐槽， 关于读phd
What's your purpose of life? Find this out, then everything will fall into
I get the above conclusion from my own life story, after 3 years of trying out different things + rediscovering myself.
Motto: it's never too late to make the change. It's also alright to make mistakes along the way. The process of finding your purpose of life is far more important than the end result.
My story:
I used to work as RA at A*Star, the project looked promising (boss was ambitious for quality publications), and my boss asked me whether I would like to do PhD with him.
At that time I was already planning to switch career, and was doing Master in Financial Engineering.
The PhD program looked attractive also as the boss made many fanciful promises...
After a few days' self-discovery and intense discussion with friends, I told my boss "No"...
About 12 months later, I resigned, and my boss remained speechless while I was telling him the news. I thought he was shocked, and felt sorry.
Another 6 months later, I found out that my ex-boss was about to go back to the States for faculty position. This time I was the one to get shocked.
Everyone thought I made a successful career change to the $$ making industry.
Only I knew the good, the bad, and the ugly of working 60 hours/week + travelling 1-2 times a month + no time to date etc etc.
I made career change again to teaching after a lot of self-discovery + many more intensive discussions/career counseling. It started a bit half-hearted, as I wasn't even sure whether it was the right move myself.
Another 1.5 years passed, and now I am happily teaching primary school kids, a career I never ever thought about.
Life is good, although the path does not always appear to be beautiful.
I wish you all the success for your future endeavors. I made it, you can as well! :-)
Motto: it's never too late to make the change. It's also alright to make mistakes along the way. The process of finding your purpose of life is far more important than the end result.
My story:
I used to work as RA at A*Star, the project looked promising (boss was ambitious for quality publications), and my boss asked me whether I would like to do PhD with him.
At that time I was already planning to switch career, and was doing Master in Financial Engineering.
The PhD program looked attractive also as the boss made many fanciful promises...
After a few days' self-discovery and intense discussion with friends, I told my boss "No"...
About 12 months later, I resigned, and my boss remained speechless while I was telling him the news. I thought he was shocked, and felt sorry.
Another 6 months later, I found out that my ex-boss was about to go back to the States for faculty position. This time I was the one to get shocked.
Everyone thought I made a successful career change to the $$ making industry.
Only I knew the good, the bad, and the ugly of working 60 hours/week + travelling 1-2 times a month + no time to date etc etc.
I made career change again to teaching after a lot of self-discovery + many more intensive discussions/career counseling. It started a bit half-hearted, as I wasn't even sure whether it was the right move myself.
Another 1.5 years passed, and now I am happily teaching primary school kids, a career I never ever thought about.
Life is good, although the path does not always appear to be beautiful.
I wish you all the success for your future endeavors. I made it, you can as well! :-)
What's your purpose of life? Find this out, then everything will fall intoI get the above conclusion from my own life story, after 3 years of trying out different things + rediscovering myself.
Motto: it's never too late to make the change. It's also alright to make mistakes along the way. The process of finding your purpose of life is far more important than the end result.
My story:
I used to work as RA at A*Star, the project looked promising (boss was ambitious for quality publications), and my boss asked me whether I would like to do PhD with him.
At that time I was already planning to switch career, and was doing Master in Financial Engineering.
The PhD program looked attractive also as the boss made many fanciful promises...
After a few days' self-discovery and intense discussion with friends, I told my boss "No"...
About 12 months later, I resigned, and my boss remained speechless while I was telling him the news. I thought he was shocked, and felt sorry.
Another 6 months later, I found out that (more...)
"Find this out, then everything will fall into...its place"
What's your purpose of life? Find this out, then everything will fall intoI get the above conclusion from my own life story, after 3 years of trying out different things + rediscovering myself.
Motto: it's never too late to make the change. It's also alright to make mistakes along the way. The process of finding your purpose of life is far more important than the end result.
My story:
I used to work as RA at A*Star, the project looked promising (boss was ambitious for quality publications), and my boss asked me whether I would like to do PhD with him.
At that time I was already planning to switch career, and was doing Master in Financial Engineering.
The PhD program looked attractive also as the boss made many fanciful promises...
After a few days' self-discovery and intense discussion with friends, I told my boss "No"...
About 12 months later, I resigned, and my boss remained speechless while I was telling him the news. I thought he was shocked, and felt sorry.
Another 6 months later, I found out that (more...)
Nice words. Great experience. In one[…]
word, "follow your heart!"
祈祷!
人之毅力智力到尽头时, 不妨跪下来求上帝帮忙; 有谁敢说, 我们起初所有的一些见识和胸襟不也是上天所赐呢? 假若暂时的挫折, 使我们谦卑, 从而看到从天而来的亮光和喜乐, 那挫折就达到了它的目的。古今中外, 小有所成者, 了解的多了, 看得出都是上帝的手笔! 我祈祷上帝给你平安, 智慧, 也让你在导师眼里蒙悦纳。在上帝面前跪着的五分钟(其实大多数时候都不到五分钟), 效果大过在人面前站着走着讲着的五十分钟, 这话是真的。原因只有一个: 上帝定活而真的全能创造主, 满有怜悯, 满有恩典和供应。 只是, 有谁会来寻求他呢?!
楼主的标题意思应该是“楼主是mm”如果楼主是mm，
支持楼主quit或者转master.
自从我不读phd以后，人生都开朗了，笑容也变多了，腰不酸背也不痛了，一口气还能上五楼啦~！
详见我自传 hoho~
是毕业了还是转master了啊
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唉，我家这个除了读书，其他都想捣鼓。。。当年泡我的时候是打着一起读书的旗号，我要考GMAT，他也要陪考说去读MBA，结果俩人买了两套书一共没看超过5页，他拖着我去国大图书馆就是去睡觉来着，害的我也没看几页跟着打瞌睡。后来很快结婚生孩子我就读不下去了。
跟他一扯到学历的事情，他就来一句：“我们不要看学历，也不要看底薪，看年收入。。。”我就羞愧的匿了。以前觉得他啥都不会，现在几乎啥都会了，除了还不太会做饭，家里老人都走了之后，除了带娃和帮娃洗衣服，他居然晚上可以哄娃睡觉，夜里陪夜了，甚感欣慰。
会读沒有用，会生活或者说学以致用才有用
读的书转化成生产力才有用啊。放在肚子里的是XX，转化的才是力气
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看来不少人都被PhD虐心啊…
我之前的老板很ambitious, demanding，所以我就很被push, 后来换了个老板开心多了，个人觉得读PhD不完全是进学术界，一个是因为现在学术界太难，PhD已经过饱和了，科研除非是很感兴趣不然对大多数来说是条不归路，再一个有一定的学术背景，回国或者在国外读个MBA，中欧啥的转行做别的也是可行的，我有认识的朋友中科院硕士毕业，另一个美帝UCLA post doc回来现在做投资也做的好好的，选择面很多，关键想清楚以后想过什么样的生活
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那是导师的问题
赶紧抄了你老板，换一个吧
一般娶女博士的，差不多也都是男博士了。。。要炫就直接一起炫了
我老公不是，且我身边博士女生朋友的老公都不是。
关键看是否真喜欢research了如果是喜欢research的，其实老板不管也是对的，以后自己工作也是没人指导的；但是如果只是图那个degree能给自己带来点什么，那就完全没必要虚度这4，5年光阴了
我当时就是轻信了所谓Dr是一生的头衔，仿佛多大荣耀似的，在第三年的时候没quit!
对的，世上没有白吃的午餐，也没有白受的苦：）
就为了顶你这句！
反正读不读的，你不用想这么多，后果不会多严重。先放宽心。
你还在犹豫，可能还是没到那个份上。如果到了，就会像我当时一样，谁说让我读我跟谁急！
先说结果：这么个东西对我们个体发展决不是决定因素，所以这个选择也没多复杂。你就这么想，退学了，你自然也会找到另外一条路。而且你永远无法知道读和不读到底哪个更好，因为没法比较。借用楼上某句话“人生没有如果；如果有，那一定是更好”（差不多这个意思吧）。
再说过程：绝逼虐心，至少对我这种性格的来说。
最后说导师：我槽就不多吐了！！认识我的人都知道我多苦逼。结合我工作两年多以及学习各种运动遭遇几个老板加教练的经验，我可以很负责任的告诉你，导师很重要。好的老师，不会一直鄙视你，不会太过push你，而且鼓励，指导，耐心。遇到这样的导师，你自己都不舍得退学；不好的老师/老板，只会讽刺，打压，鄙视，挖苦，炫耀自己多牛逼。遇到这样的人，我看你三生不幸，趁早脚底抹油走人的好；有些老板是中性的，我觉得日子也不至于太难过。
总结：反正读博士就是一把心酸泪。不读了也一样有另一片天。
先说结果：这么个东西对我们个体发展决不是决定因素，所以这个选择也没多复杂。你就这么想，退学了，你自然也会找到另外一条路。而且你永远无法知道读和不读到底哪个更好，因为没法比较。借用楼上某句话“人生没有如果；如果有，那一定是更好”（差不多这个意思吧）。
再说过程：绝逼虐心，至少对我这种性格的来说。
最后说导师：我槽就不多吐了！！认识我的人都知道我多苦逼。结合我工作两年多以及学习各种运动遭遇几个老板加教练的经验，我可以很负责任的告诉你，导师很重要。好的老师，不会一直鄙视你，不会太过push你，而且鼓励，指导，耐心。遇到这样的导师，你自己都不舍得退学；不好的老师/老板，只会讽刺，打压，鄙视，挖苦，炫耀自己多牛逼。遇到这样的人，我看你三生不幸，趁早脚底抹油走人的好；有些老板是中性的，我觉得日子也不至于太难过。
总结：反正读博士就是一把心酸泪。不读了也一样有另一片天。
我当时就是轻信了所谓Dr是一生的头衔，仿佛多大荣耀似的，在第三年的时候没quit!
你的degree现在应该还是有价值吧，不用后悔啦
说真的，我觉得大部分人当初选择读phd都是不知道将来想干什么
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我不鄙薄博士，也不吹捧博士现在博士已经比较泛滥了，良莠不齐。
有相当一部分优秀的博士是值得尊敬的，埋头做学术研究并且醉心于此道，这种人为了梦想理想耐得住寂寞。
而现在很大一部分人读博士的目的都不单纯：为了学历，为了有个体面的头衔，为了将来找工作可以要价更高，为了当教授，甚至有的是因为找不到满意的工作不得不继续硬着头皮读书，有多少人是因为单纯的喜欢读书做研究去读博的？
所以博士没什么牛的，博士中的牛人之所以牛也不只是因为一个博士头衔，就算他不读博士也会很牛，各行各业的牛人都值得尊敬。
自从某教授花了一个下午说的天花乱坠的忽悠我跟他读博被我拒了之后，我就觉得博士并不神秘或者高高在上，无非是一个学历罢了，只是取得的过程艰辛了一点。所以我深深的佩服那些耐得住寂寞把博士读出来的人，因为我没有那种耐性，但并不羡慕。
我能说我就读了个本科么
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说得对拿我自己来说吧，我就是比较想出国而已。
看来大家都有这么一段虐心的经历啊
我是读了一年半了，专业与本硕不一样，完全是重头开始，老板倒是很nice，只是自己真心的读不下去了，很早就有quit的打算了，不知道这是不是临阵脱逃啊
我也差不多崩溃了，几度崩溃，几度又劝活自己
同是天涯沦落人啊
我也有个神龙见首不见尾的老板，无奈我资质又不高。
我每一次"深情款款"的一大篇邮件基本上只能换来一句话。
看着同级的同学陆陆续续写出了paper，我真心着急啊～
我每一次"深情款款"的一大篇邮件基本上只能换来一句话。
看着同级的同学陆陆续续写出了paper，我真心着急啊～
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