是确定后发生还是发生后确定鸡生蛋还是蛋生鸡

obviously,the "kuan hsi" in the main entry has such a referential object which is indicating a romance, differing from it that from the thread you perceived of, which is pertaining to sexuality. although it's hard to say the nature of background knowledge which leads you to such a perspective is beneficial to the holder of such point of view or not, we can safely say that the utterance you verbalized here reveals some characteristics of the interlocutor.

这。。。在所谓"追"上面，在下经验为零。。。

是确定后发生还是发生后确定鸡生蛋还是蛋生鸡