well, i guess it depends on how u see and how you feel it...frankly, if u are in the good and right mood, the whole world is beautiful;
and if u don't want to feel it in that way, all beauties are rubbish..
去这种玩的地方,心境还是很重要的。
you are correct man..
i keep on asking myself: if i go with xxx will i feel better?