他不是不想保护你，而是不懂得怎样保护你那你觉得他有可能学得会么？孺子可教否？
没有人天生就懂得处理各种事情的，都得有个过程。往好的方面说，如果这一阶段的问题你们能处理好了，那你们以后的磨合期可能要过得顺利一点。
找一些过来人跟你男友谈谈吧。凡事都有个方法的。他得学会怎么处理好家庭内部矛盾。对于想要结婚的男人而言，这是必须的。
从你的叙述中我觉得他真得很爱你。所以说，前途是光明的，道路是曲折的。
当然了，天涯何处无芳草，三条腿的蛤蟆少，两条腿的男人到处都是等至理名言，也是真的。
Living a life does not rely only on "love"
yes he loves her for sure, and he is willing to lower his head and wait for her to scold him. But so what?
If he only expects the two sides to resolve the issue by time, he is somehow too naive (sorry but I really feel that). A very sensitive point here is that his parents may have biased view on China and Chinese people, and that's 100% unacceptable for a normal person from PRC. Any other issues disappear with time, such as habits, manners, or communication etc., but this one? Never! Unless his parents somehow show that they don't have such view on China and Chinese people...
If he only expects the two sides to resolve the issue by time, he is somehow too naive (sorry but I really feel that). A very sensitive point here is that his parents may have biased view on China and Chinese people, and that's 100% unacceptable for a normal person from PRC. Any other issues disappear with time, such as habits, manners, or communication etc., but this one? Never! Unless his parents somehow show that they don't have such view on China and Chinese people...
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