这种女人能不能养？帮一哥们的婚姻求良药有一哥们在新工作，３年前网恋认识国内一大四女生，后来等到女生大学毕业两人就结婚了，现在女生也来到新加坡。女生开始还积极找工作，几次碰壁后，就灰心丧气一直待在家里做家庭主妇。时间久了脾气变得越来越坏。每天除了买菜做饭，就是上网玩，有时还跑出去见网女。这哥们曾多次鼓励她出去找工作，但她显然没了兴趣。这哥们为此很不开心，为自己婚姻的不慎重懊恼不已。这哥们收入不错，经济上不是大问题，只是觉得２０来岁的女人就甘心做家庭主妇有点不好。

i dont agree with you on sth ."女人最好的时候给了男人, 什么什么的, 难得女人的价值就只体现在外表上? 她为社会,和男人贡献的只能是她某段时间的外表? 这不是对女人的歧视嘛? 为什么女人认同这点呢,女权哪去了?, 分手费, 生活费, 怎么搞出来的? " haha ,it s becuz of the stereotype of the society and the root of evil is still in men. I just give u some examples here, divorced men are much easier to marry off than a divorced women ; a couple broke up when they are 30, the man has no difficulty finding another another girl but the woman encounters some troubles cuz of her age. Well , we are talking abt equality here . I still feel that when women asking for breaking up fees or watever is still not breaking the rule of equality. cuz of the societal view has made women to be at a disavantageous position. Even monetary compensations cannot count for those intangible losses to women . In a word , no matter how hard women are fighting for equality, women are still not really equal with men.