i dont agree with you on sth ."女人最好的时候给了男人, 什么什么的, 难得女人的价值就只体现在外表上? 她为社会,和男人贡献的只能是她某段时间的外表? 这不是对女人的歧视嘛? 为什么女人认同这点呢,女权哪去了?, 分手费, 生活费, 怎么搞出来的? " haha ,it s becuz of the stereotype of the society and the root of evil is still in men. I just give u some examples here, divorced men are much easier to marry off than a divorced women ; a couple broke up when they are 30, the man has no difficulty finding another another girl but the woman encounters some troubles cuz of her age. Well , we are talking abt equality here . I still feel that when women asking for breaking up fees or watever is still not breaking the rule of equality. cuz of the societal view has made women to be at a disavantageous position. Even monetary compensations cannot count for those intangible losses to women . In a word , no matter how hard women are fighting for equality, women are still not really equal with men.