sad but truebefore: oh 亲爱的 I love you for who you are, please don't change anything for me. after: 你个死不要脸的怎么不去干嘛&*%%（?!，我要的房子车子）*&*（）……呢？？？整天做那些什么狗屁工作，快去给我干嘛干嘛*（……&*（……& before: 我们的孩子只要开开心心就好，他将来做什么都可以 after: 你个没出息的考不上（*……&（&的话就不要再踏进这个家门。 If you think that you are very happy in your relationship right now, perhaps you have not been cheated of everything that life can offer yet, and you probably won't realize it until when you are being ripped open and apart again and again by the very person who is lying right beside you and who used to be the closest person to you in the world but whom now you just even don't bother to call him/her a jerk. Open your eyes, look at that person closely and think carefully.