我觉得主要还是经济原因
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作者:dos2unix (等级:3 - 略知一二,发帖:234) 发表:2015-04-27 10:52:33  楼主  关注此帖
【婚姻家庭】sleepless night, cold war with husband. It’s early hours in the morning, yet I can’t sleep, kept tossing and turning in bed, in the end I decided to take it on my laptop and vent it out on huasing. Hopefully afterwards I can have a restful sleep. Some background info:  I have been married for 4 years now, daughter is 1.5 years old.  Hubby is a stay-at-home dad while I work to support the family, rather unconventional right?  No choice, cause I have a more stable income while my hubby was self-employed and he could barely support himself sometimes.  It was a hard decision, not only for me, but was also a blow to my hubby’s ego.  Though husband should always be the head of the family, who provides for and protects the family, in my case I have to make most of the decisions in the house.  I don’t really enjoy being in command, I would rather have a more capable/domineering husband who takes charge of the household, but well I married this one. There are a lot of quarrels in the first two (more...)
我觉得主要还是经济原因
刚刚看到楼主,一共发了4贴,前三贴是5年前的征友贴,第4贴就是这次深沉的或可称之为吐槽的抱怨贴,看来楼主做出的人生选择遇到了点问题。
作为男生,我觉得你们很有可能问题出在经济上,如果一个男士无法赚钱养家,甚至说为了老婆的礼物而没钱买饭吃的话,那么真的是一件很伤自尊、甚至说值得相当自卑的事情。家里财政大权应该是完全掌握在楼主手里的吧,家里一切大小事务应该都是楼主做决定的喽,这样你老公在家真的很没有存在感的。
不过哪怕即使这样,他还能照顾你的感受,甚至照顾外面的弱势群体,真的很难得,虽然有打肿脸充胖子的嫌疑,不过至少说明他人品还不坏。楼主是不是可以考虑:
1. 跟老公谈谈,如果自主创业这么多年还没有起色,不如换一个行业,或者出去做点别的吧,哪怕去学驾驶当个出租车司机也是好的啊,男人能赚钱养家了腰杆自然就会硬一些。
2. 是不是可以放松对老公的财政掌控,比如每个月多给那么一点点零花钱,至少让他有钱吃饭吧。
3. 如果说短时间内出去工作有难度,那么至少可以让他尝试做个好父亲、做个好老公喽,比如照顾好孩子,让老婆可以安心工作,回家也有热饭吃,不用再操心家务之类?
既然楼主当初选择了他,应该他还是有吸引楼主的闪光点的,只不过现在因为生活问题闪光点变得暗淡了而已。
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