【婚姻家庭】sleepless night, cold war with husband.
It’s early hours
in the morning, yet I can’t sleep, kept tossing and turning in bed, in the end I
decided to take it on my laptop and vent it out on huasing. Hopefully
afterwards I can have a restful sleep.
Some background
info:
I have been
married for 4 years now, daughter is 1.5 years old. Hubby is a stay-at-home dad while I work to
support the family, rather unconventional right? No choice, cause I have a more stable income
while my hubby was self-employed and he could barely support himself sometimes. It was a hard decision, not only for me, but was
also a blow to my hubby’s ego. Though
husband should always be the head of the family, who provides for and protects
the family, in my case I have to make most of the decisions in the house. I don’t really enjoy being in command, I
would rather have a more capable/domineering husband who takes charge of the
household, but well I married this one.
There are a lot
of quarrels in the first two
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理解问题, 文化差异
从文中看, LZ二人还是有感情的, 只是彼此没有注意对方的感受, 都只考虑自己的感受多些.
多沟通吧! 情绪一上来, 就容易搞拧了, cool(calm) down first, then think it over and over.
多沟通吧! 情绪一上来, 就容易搞拧了, cool(calm) down first, then think it over and over.