【婚姻家庭】sleepless night, cold war with husband. It’s early hours in the morning, yet I can’t sleep, kept tossing and turning in bed, in the end I decided to take it on my laptop and vent it out on huasing. Hopefully afterwards I can have a restful sleep. Some background info:　 I have been married for 4 years now, daughter is 1.5 years old.　 Hubby is a stay-at-home dad while I work to support the family, rather unconventional right?　 No choice, cause I have a more stable income while my hubby was self-employed and he could barely support himself sometimes.　 It was a hard decision, not only for me, but was also a blow to my hubby’s ego.　 Though husband should always be the head of the family, who provides for and protects the family, in my case I have to make most of the decisions in the house.　 I don’t really enjoy being in command, I would rather have a more capable/domineering husband who takes charge of the household, but well I married this one. There are a lot of quarrels in the first two (more...)

有点理解那个男生的感觉十几年前有一个男生，坏穿着梦想，用了全部心血和积蓄去创业，不幸失败，不但梦碎了，积蓄也一扫而空，最后蜗居在朋友所租的HDB客厅里。 那时候，no money, no job, no confidence，这样的男生当然是没有魅力的loser，然后他的初恋女友也绝然离开了。 我才不会告诉你，其实那个loser男生就是我。

放人家的fb 链接，不好吧。