昨晚把该贴拿出来跟男票讨论了一下基本把各种回复都给他看了，把看帖之后的心情也说了。作为混迹reddit十几年的老手，他是这么跟我讲的，发现自己还是幼稚了。这里尽量复述原话。觉得挺有趣的。 1.嘲笑篇。"hahaha, u can't expect everyone to agree with u in personal level on the INTERNET" 2.安慰篇。"u should know that if ur IQ is higher than 100 u r alrdy smarter than 50% of ppl there" 3.学历篇。我的看法，第二条然并卵，发现我们都不知道中国法律规定婚后有赡养对方父母的义务。毕竟两个都“中学没毕业”。 4.纠错篇。关于我说是因为他坚持，我才去见过他父母一次的。"no, not me. It's bcos they insisted" 5.理性篇。"I really don't care if u see each other or not. Other family members r also ok except my mother.The problem is both of u r stubborn. She has the strong family concept and u insist not to see her. Hmm, but i think ur way is better"预见到未来的麻烦，如果我们真的来往的话。 6.解决方案篇。计划让他回家跟妈妈好好交流一次。让她了解到我是因为觉得会互相伤害，才不想来往的。并让她放心，儿子不是被抢走了，还是一样的陪你养你呢。