到一定年龄才悟到的道理?很多道理,即使早就知道,未必能悟到并确信。有些东西确实和年龄有关。有啥感悟欢迎跟帖分享。自己贡献几个:
1,没有钱是万万不能的,但钱不是万能的(请留意顺序)。
2,没有人能改变别人,除非那人自己愿意改。
3,人性恶,教化就是去恶增善。但这教化和学历无关,和社会 家庭 尤其本人愿意接受的意愿有关。
4,每个人都有优缺点和长短处,看你看哪点。
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现抄了一段
People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.
(人们经常是无理,没逻辑的,自我中心的。还是要原谅他们。)
If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.
(如果你善良,人们也许会说你有自私的企图。还是要善良。)
If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies. Succeed anyway.
(如果你成功,你会有一些假朋友和真敌人。还是要成功。)
If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you. Be honest and frank anyway.
(如果你诚实和真诚,别人也许会欺骗你。还是要诚实和真诚。)
What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight. Build anyway.
(你多年建设的成果,可以被人一夜之间摧毁。还是要建设。)
If you find serenity and happiness, they maybe jealous. Be happy anyway.
(如果你平和幸福,他们会嫉妒。还是要幸福。)
The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow. Do good anyway.
(你今天做的好事,明天人们也许就会忘记。还是要做好事。)
Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough. Give the best you’ve got anyway.
(倾尽全力,给世界你的所有,也许这远远不够。但还是要尽己所能。)
You see, in the final analysis it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.
(你看,最终,这些是你和上帝之间的事,从来不是你和他们之间的事。)
对于不信上帝的最后一句可以换成,你看,最终,这些是你和自我之间的事,从来不是你和他们之间的事。
其实说白了就是要善良正直,要坚信自己认为对的事,才能得到内心最大的满足,才能觉得不负此生。
(人们经常是无理,没逻辑的,自我中心的。还是要原谅他们。)
If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.
(如果你善良,人们也许会说你有自私的企图。还是要善良。)
If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies. Succeed anyway.
(如果你成功,你会有一些假朋友和真敌人。还是要成功。)
If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you. Be honest and frank anyway.
(如果你诚实和真诚,别人也许会欺骗你。还是要诚实和真诚。)
What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight. Build anyway.
(你多年建设的成果,可以被人一夜之间摧毁。还是要建设。)
If you find serenity and happiness, they maybe jealous. Be happy anyway.
(如果你平和幸福,他们会嫉妒。还是要幸福。)
The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow. Do good anyway.
(你今天做的好事,明天人们也许就会忘记。还是要做好事。)
Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough. Give the best you’ve got anyway.
(倾尽全力,给世界你的所有,也许这远远不够。但还是要尽己所能。)
You see, in the final analysis it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.
(你看,最终,这些是你和上帝之间的事,从来不是你和他们之间的事。)
对于不信上帝的最后一句可以换成,你看,最终,这些是你和自我之间的事,从来不是你和他们之间的事。
其实说白了就是要善良正直,要坚信自己认为对的事,才能得到内心最大的满足,才能觉得不负此生。
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