Happy Ending?如果我们谈人生的话,真的有所谓的happy ending? 听这句话吧:
Life is a sexually transmitted disease with a 100% mortality rate.
关于体验的说法,文章说到:
"Optimists respond to these observations with a brave face. They argue that although life does contain much that is bad, the bad things are necessary (in some or other way) for the good things. Without pain, we would not avoid injury; without hunger, meals would not satisfy; without striving, there would be no achievement.
But plenty of bad things are clearly gratuitous. Is it really necessary that children are born with congenital abnormalities, that thousands of people starve to death every day, and that the terminally ill suffer their agonies? Do we really need to suffer pain in order to enjoy pleasure?
Even if one thinks that the bad is needed, perhaps to better appreciate the good, one must admit that it would be better if that were not the case. That is, life would be better if we could have the good without the bad. In thi
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乐观者觉得一切都值得
悲观者则怀疑一切
我其实算一个乐观前行的悲观者
人生中的一些挫折和痛苦确实有必要,比如失恋促使你更多的思考两性关系找到更契合的人,比如你做了些不合适的事情生活就会给你惩罚。不是全部的痛苦都是必要的,但一部分是
人生的退出,除了自杀,还可以是有一定物质保障的隐居、出家。恰恰这个退出问题是核心所在,我们都问问自己,经历了那么多后你后悔来这世上一遭吗,如果自己都不后悔,那就不需要那么担心孩子,如果自己后悔,那又怎么能那么肯定孩子也会后悔呢。我反正就觉得吧,人生是值得的,想办法开开心心去过就是了,不值得的是思考人生
我其实算一个乐观前行的悲观者
人生中的一些挫折和痛苦确实有必要,比如失恋促使你更多的思考两性关系找到更契合的人,比如你做了些不合适的事情生活就会给你惩罚。不是全部的痛苦都是必要的,但一部分是
人生的退出,除了自杀,还可以是有一定物质保障的隐居、出家。恰恰这个退出问题是核心所在,我们都问问自己,经历了那么多后你后悔来这世上一遭吗,如果自己都不后悔,那就不需要那么担心孩子,如果自己后悔,那又怎么能那么肯定孩子也会后悔呢。我反正就觉得吧,人生是值得的,想办法开开心心去过就是了,不值得的是思考人生
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