其实生活还有比你这更鸡飞狗跳的当然我不是来让你跟别人比惨的。你这位先生，确实是太孩子气了一点。不知道多大了？最近是不是有他没有说出来的压力，还是一贯如此？ 每个人都应该先冷静下来，找到问题，面对问题，解决问题。 你似乎有些独立人格的苗头，不过还是要记得：戒贪，戒嗔，戒痴。我觉得你应该从打破你对人际关系不切实际的幻想开始。 Li Lu quote from the recent Greenwald interview: “Every business builds their fortress slightly differently and you have to be honest with yourself and study them from every possible angle until you are convinced that they are truly enduring and have a long runway ahead of them.”