但是后来我发现其实有些人抠是抠自己，对朋友很大方的；中年男人其实挺可怜的要一个人面对现实的社会，养成的条件反射习惯.

了不起的盖茨比里面有句话 "just remember that all the people in the world haven't had the advantages that you've had."