1) threatening to beat someone is definitely wrong in LIFE of all aspects, NOT just in chinese chess

2) as a SG chinese Chess Committee, i mean isnt it more acceptable for a SIXGA member to demonstrate wisdom, patience and to solve things in a peaceful manner? not anyhow say want to beat someone up?

3)Even if one has done something wrong or there is any misunderstandings, isnt it more appropriate for ONE to listen carefully to what the other has to say with the intention to solve things rightly? <Shouting during the whole meeting> seems to imply that this guy has already a biased view on Master Lai and seem to have already condemned him without any thoughts of solving things rightly.

In a game of chinese chess, isnt it the same as like condemning some openings just because the player assumed(has not done accurate calculations for the opening) it to be a lousy one?

Is this the way to think? is this the way a wise leader should be doing things?

If the things my friend told me are all true, i am sad that we, chinese chess players of SG do not have a wise leader. Why should we follow a group of people who just do what they like without fairness and has no answer to the players? hmm...what do you guys say? correct me if i am wrong pls.