那要看每次说的是什么！！！卷心菜与魔刀转世的水平差距是事实，但不等于卷心菜全无机会。退一步说，就算不是对手，卷心菜也不可能简单输棋。谁也不应该还没开局就先躲在一旁指责别人的水平，抹杀交流学习的机会。
大家知道最近卷心菜表现不错，至于能借团体赛压力胜卢国龙，一帆风顺胜B组。他胜李瑞光一局，中残部分我与林大师等棋手在旁观战，研究出的最佳变化他几乎都走出来了，令人刮目相看。如果比赛有机会，他一鼓作气，再接再厉，向高手学习，有什么不可以的吗？魔刀转世虽然水平高出一截，但临场心理上容易有非胜不可的压力，想胜就容易走得勉强。一旦勉强行棋超过了自己掌控的能力，也不是全无风险。直接对阵，可能是一比九的机会，而即使是一比九，仍然值得大家多加学习。就对局双方来说，卷心菜至少可以加深对棋的理解，魔刀转世至少可以反省控盘时候的微妙——双方都能够进步，一两局的胜负真象某些人说的那么重要吗？
有话直说是好事情，选择性地“直说”，一方面炫耀自己的“谦虚”从不肯讨论具体变化，一方面又含糊其辞地说别人哪里哪里差。别人还没对局他先判死刑；别人有心挑战强手他先拖后腿；真下成了，他还要捕风捉影，断章取义地损人。棋一生你夸他两句，他立刻就来拉交情，其� (more...)
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Many years ago, there were 2 good friends. They used to play online Xiangqi together. Friend A is class A and friend B is class B.
One day, an opponent was playing with B and lost. Having admiration for B, the opponent asked B what is his result in Singapore. B replied "Champion in open tournament". A was very sour and started to badmouth everyone about B because B is a group B champion, rather than group A champion. A fight broke out when B realized A had been badmouthing B and they stopped talking to one another. Worst part is A influenced certain decision within the chess team and got B kicked out.
Morale of the story..... both are too mindful about reputation. If someone likes to say he is number 1 and says others are no class, let him be. If you engage him in a fight, you are stooping as low as him.
只不过是为了象棋，搞了十多年事事非非又何必呢。搞了棋友，又搞网友。弄到朋友都相续离去而大家都不想来华新了。有空多在事业打拼，少说事非。如果明天两脚一升，翘辫子了，名利，地位，钱财，number 1 棋力还重要吗？
人生苦短，应该把个人利益看淡。把所有棋友都当成自己的家亲眷属，还会诽谤他们，鄙视他们吗？
希望大家能看淡放下。
(by the way I am not replying to brother 几度。Have utmost respect for his sharp analysis and character.)
Brother卷心菜，let's meet go to the mountain top, have a drink and forget about the unhapiness.
One day, an opponent was playing with B and lost. Having admiration for B, the opponent asked B what is his result in Singapore. B replied "Champion in open tournament". A was very sour and started to badmouth everyone about B because B is a group B champion, rather than group A champion. A fight broke out when B realized A had been badmouthing B and they stopped talking to one another. Worst part is A influenced certain decision within the chess team and got B kicked out.
Morale of the story..... both are too mindful about reputation. If someone likes to say he is number 1 and says others are no class, let him be. If you engage him in a fight, you are stooping as low as him.
只不过是为了象棋，搞了十多年事事非非又何必呢。搞了棋友，又搞网友。弄到朋友都相续离去而大家都不想来华新了。有空多在事业打拼，少说事非。如果明天两脚一升，翘辫子了，名利，地位，钱财，number 1 棋力还重要吗？
人生苦短，应该把个人利益看淡。把所有棋友都当成自己的家亲眷属，还会诽谤他们，鄙视他们吗？
希望大家能看淡放下。
(by the way I am not replying to brother 几度。Have utmost respect for his sharp analysis and character.)
Brother卷心菜，let's meet go to the mountain top, have a drink and forget about the unhapiness.
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