if not because of moneyok, money isn't everything but without it, you can't do anything
Agree with you. Hopefully you can settle it.
There's nothing to resolve. But my experience is indeed a cruel reality in
Just be smart and don't be taken as a fool by others. Show them that you are no fool. Even if you have a good heart and money, must be smart and selective on who to help, once you smell a rat, just quit.
There's nothing to resolve. But my experience is indeed a cruel reality inJust be smart and don't be taken as a fool by others. Show them that you are no fool. Even if you have a good heart and money, must be smart and selective on who to help, once you smell a rat, just quit.
我觉得帮别人的时候要从两方面来看,
一方面是你如果刚好没什么事,而别人的事情对你来说又是举手之劳,ok,那就顺便帮了,毕竟帮人会让自己心情愉快; but, if 这件事情占用了你太多的时间,如果两个人交情不到,或者那个人你感觉不是那种很合得来的,那还是算了吧(因为当你想要找他们帮忙的时候,他们拒绝的可能性比较大,所以为了不失望,还是委婉拒绝掉吧)。
另外一方面,没有人是fool,只有曾经的太天真,太善良,我们帮别人的时候,其实并不会去想别人回报我们的,所以,换个角度想,付出,不一定要回报,但是别人不帮忙,一次,他就不再是我承认的真朋友了,我最多损失一些物质,但是你却不再是我这个朋友。
by the way, 做人还是有点心机(其实以上这些话都是说给我自己的,因为总是会帮别人,然后在别人眼里,估计也是楼主说的fool)
Trying to criticise me? You don't know who i am, really? Who are you to tell me what to do? If you have the ability to teach me what to do, then you should be able to sponsor any event yourself. If not, please keep quiet.