10次有八次，只说她很累，又没有其他证据。

（绿色的）……

1. 性冷淡
2. 有外遇

if （加班==加班 ）
{ 累=TRUE, Solution=换个工作 }

else

{累=False, Solution=换个老婆 }

End

绝对

老婆加班很累 就每天去接他回来，
给他准备电吃的，不要总考虑x....
没有根据的事情，最好不要乱猜，
就对她讲，你一直很信任她，

不过另外一方面，难道你不认识他的同时吗？
时常找机会去她工作的地方转转，
不就什么都知道了吗？

如果有外遇了，就先把她追回来，然后再踹掉
喜欢一个人不容易，但是装作喜欢一个人应该不难。

“如果有外遇了，就先把她追回来，然后再踹掉 。喜欢一个人不容易，但是装作喜欢一个人应该不难。”心机太重了吧。吓着我啦！！！
偶觉得无论男、女，当你不在喜欢对方时就应该勇敢的放手。让他（她）去寻找更好的幸福！如果你一直都徘徊在她伤害了你，你一定要报复她的心态的话，你将会和她一样的痛苦。那又何必呢。记得关心妍有首歌叫《放生》里面有句歌词很有道理：

热情淡了吗 想抽身了嘛
聊电话也泄气了吗
旧承诺应不假 却忍不到闷吧
念记当天处处鲜花

* 互缠着到老 不死都疲劳
还是跟你痛快结束
为承诺守得到 拍拖都变义务
没法稀罕你这情操

去吧 犹如候鸟飞走吧
未奢想你迷途知返
自由 来换失恋那代价
你真的相信值得吗

是我太过爱你 愿意放生你
无谓你抱阵我也这么的晦气
我亦算知丑 无谓强迫你
难道要我对着你句句要生要死

就当爱错了你 就当放生你
无谓你说话里有这么多怨气
我就放开手 无谓再忍你
明白放过你是放过自己 这个道理

让自己活得开心、快乐才是正道啊！(^ . ^)

和男女朋友不一样，

分开就意味着家破，
一个家庭，责任心更重要一些，
当然有人该得到惩罚了？

敢出轨，当然就要有被惩罚的准备，呵呵

here's a story:


At one seminar where I was speaking on the concept of proactivity, a man came up and said, "Stephen, I like what you're saying. But every situation is so different. Look at my marriage. I'm really worried. My wife and I just don't have the same feelings for each other we used to have. I guess I just don't love her anymore and she doesn't love me. What can I do?"

"The feeling isn't there anymore?" I asked.
"That's right,"He reaffirmed. "And we have three children we're really concerned about. What do you suggest?"
"Love Her," I replied.
"I told you, the feeling just isn't there anymore."
"Love her."
"You don't understand. The feeling of love just isn't there."
"Then love her.If the feeling isn't there, that's a good reason to love her."
"But how do you love when you don't love?"
"My friend, love is a verb. Love--the feeling--is a fruit of love, the verb. So love her. Are you willing to do that?"

...

Proactive people make love a verb. Love is something you do: the sacrifices you make, the giving of self, like a mother bringing a newborn into the world. If you want to study love, study those who sacrifice for otehrs, even for people who offend or do not love in return. If you are a parent, look at the love you have for the children you sacrificed for. Love is a value that is actualized through loving actions. Proactive people subordinate feelings to values. Love, the feeling, can be recaptured.

K-A-O

两个人能够在一起很不容易。宁叫人教子，莫叫人分妻。