Sharing: My experience of online datingDISCLAIMER:
THE FOLLOWING STATEMENTS ARE ONLY MY PERSONAL POINT OF VIEW, THEY ARE NOT REPRESENTATIVE IN ANY WAY.
NO OFFENCES ARE INTENDED.
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Since we are living in a cyber world now, i thought there is a fair chance to meet Mr. Right online, plus i know a few friends who testimonied that true love could be found online. So i wrote a rough introduction about myself and my expectation for the boyfriend-to-be and posted it on two websites www.sgchinese.com.sg/bbs and www.huasing.org. The viewers of these two websites are mainly chinese, i mean mainland chinese, like myself. I thought that birds of the same feather flock together, maybe a Chinese man would suit me better than a foreigner. By the way, I have also applied SDU membership, but wasn't keen to join any activities or meet any guys there.
After the ads were posted, I have received quite a lot of re (more...)
that is rather unfortunate...
Just my personal opinion, chances are slim if you go online with a mindset to search for Mr. Right.
It's just like arranged matchmaking... just that you arrange it for yourself.
The first date becomes a test, no cocktail, no appetizer, things don't get developed...
It's like an interview or exam, the poor guy is either be a totally disqualified, lousy person or a nervous, cautious interviewee.
It's just like arranged matchmaking... just that you arrange it for yourself.
The first date becomes a test, no cocktail, no appetizer, things don't get developed...
It's like an interview or exam, the poor guy is either be a totally disqualified, lousy person or a nervous, cautious interviewee.