don't really get what you mean......are you saying i am expecting too much?i am aware that i am not perfect either, and it's not reasonable to ask for a perfect bf/husband, but i can't force myself to accept someone who is repulsive, irresponsible, obnoxious and dirty-minded (that's just me). I don't want to find someone to get married just because i am getting older each day, and i don't want to get married just because peer pressure and family pressure. If such man doesn't exist, i would rather stay single, probably will lead a happier and better life that way.

看个人的吧, 我觉得很多时候是男生无法接受比自己高的女生.

以为自己找到了, 但是好难......最近见了一个男生, 很有好感, 可以算是一拍即合吧, 而且他也很喜欢我. PS 比我矮一点. 但是他就要去美国读书一年了, 我们都很犹豫到底是否要对这段感情付出. 其实和他聊天很久了, 但是一直没有出来见面, 就是因为他要去美国了所以就临走前见了一面,谁知道一面变成了好多面. 但是他要出国学习, 我们没有什么时间在一起了,所以现在就挺尴尬的. 他不要我等他, 大概也是不想自己有太大的思想包袱, 而我也觉得一年内不知道会发生什么事情. 所以就决定暂时把这份感情搁在一边, 约好一年后如果彼此都单身那就继续发展我们的姻缘, 不然就是有缘无分了. 不知道为何觉得内心还是有点伤感, 虽然对他认识不深, 但就是很想和他在一起的感觉, 可惜他现在对爱情处于怀疑阶段, 所以很忧郁做出任何决定. 就看一年后如何了..... 人是找到了, 但是天时地利不和啊. 命运真是捉弄人啊