that is rather unfortunate...Just my personal opinion, chances are slim if you go online with a mindset to search for Mr. Right. It's just like arranged matchmaking... just that you arrange it for yourself. The first date becomes a test, no cocktail, no appetizer, things don't get developed... It's like an interview or exam, the poor guy is either be a totally disqualified, lousy person or a nervous, cautious interviewee.