我觉得这个想法很正常,换作是我我也会这么做。争取了也许不一定有结果,但是不争取以后一定后悔。
不过前提是自己不是第三者。
If lz do this now, she is definitely the third party.
You could have done this before his wedding ceremony.
But not after it, in order to be politically correct...
But not after it, in order to be politically correct...