研究显示,无论男女,有姐妹的人比较开心Having a sister makes you happier and more optimistic, say psychologists
Having a sister makes you happier and more optimistic, a new study shows, but the same is not true for having a brother.
Growing up with at least one girl in the family also makes people more able to cope with their problems, according to the study.
Daughters tie loved ones closer together and encourage them to communicate their emotions more effectively, the researchers believe.
Prof Tony Cassidy, from the University of Ulster, who carried out the study with researchers from De Montfort University in Leicester, said that having a sister helped to promote good mental health.
He said: "Sisters appear to encourage more open communication and cohesion in families. However, brothers seem to have the alternative effect. Emotional expression is fundamental to good psychological health and having sisters promotes this in families."
Girls who had sisters also tended to be more independent and keen on (more...)
这个,也是看情况吧
我家是姐妹俩,姐姐大我三岁,从出娘胎我就不招她喜欢,觉得我抢走了属于她一个人的幸福生活和万千宠爱。我妈说我几个月大的时候她就偷偷把我从摇篮里拖出来打。后来我们一直吵架打架直到我离开家来到新加坡。小时候我身体不好,一直发育不良长的跟豆芽菜一样,我姐从小就拔高,吵架吵不过我姐,打架更打不过,结果一直被欺负大,爸妈工作忙也没空管,告状上去也只是各打五十大板。从小到大我最痛恨的人就是我姐了。。。
我跟大我一岁的表哥关系特好,结果一到假期我情愿去阿姨家跟表哥一起住也不愿留在家里独自面对我姐。一直想这俩人能不能换一下呢?给我个亲哥多好。
但是成年以后情况就不一样了,到底还是亲生的姐姐比较亲。而且人大了,虽然偶尔掰几句,像小时候那样吵架打架不可能了。
我跟大我一岁的表哥关系特好,结果一到假期我情愿去阿姨家跟表哥一起住也不愿留在家里独自面对我姐。一直想这俩人能不能换一下呢?给我个亲哥多好。
但是成年以后情况就不一样了,到底还是亲生的姐姐比较亲。而且人大了,虽然偶尔掰几句,像小时候那样吵架打架不可能了。