一样的纠结啊只有有相同困境的人才能理解这个问题对两个家庭的严重性啊
也为此磨了很多嘴皮子，冷战。最终必须有一方妥协的，否则会一直不开心下去。
谁说新加坡一定一定要跟父亲姓呢？我问了新加坡妇产科医生，人家说可以跟母姓的啊
Registration of Births and Deaths Act (CHAPTER 267)
Surname of child
10.—(1) Any surname of a child to be entered in respect of the registration of the birth of the child shall be that of the father of the child; but where the child is illegitimate and the father is not an informant of the birth, the surname, if any, shall be that of the mother of the child.
10.—(1) Any surname of a child to be entered in respect of the registration of the birth of the child shall be that of the father of the child; but where the child is illegitimate and the father is not an informant of the birth, the surname, if any, shall be that of the mother of the child.
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