我应该分手吗？最近分手帖满天飞，那么我也来说说我的遭遇吧。我的男友是坡人，希望大家不要戴有色眼镜看我，我绝不是贪钱或是贪新加坡的身份才跟他在一起的。 我本身是很多年前来新的sm系列中的一员，现在phd在读，早就拿到了pr，绝对不用依靠别人养。说实话，认识他以前我根本没有想过要嫁给坡人，然后一辈子留在这里，可是缘分来了，就顺其自然了。
男友是几年前实习的时候认识的，一开始只是普通的朋友，后来大学毕业以后才开始交往的。 现在我在读phd，他也有份稳定的工作，本来都还好，已经开始谈婚论嫁，计划我毕业以后就结婚，可是我提出结婚以后要买房子搬出去住，因为我实在没有信心跟他的父母一起住。问题就来了，男友本不愿意搬出去，后来经我劝说和我父母施压算是答应了，然后他就去说服他的父母，他父母就开始对我恨不满意了。。。
前几天我之前租的房子到期，无法续约了，我就只好搬家了，新的房间比原来的小了一点，最重要的是房间里面放的是很大的双人床，而且房东并没有提供除此以外的其他家具，所以我有一小部分的东西放不下了（主要是本科时候的很多课本，还有一些暂时用不到的厨房用具，因为房东不让煮饭的），男友就主动提出让我把那些东西暂时寄放在他家里。 我跟他前脚把东� (more...)
I agree with 居里
This is a very sensitive situation, and the only one who can resolve this is your boyfriend! Nobody else!
He should be very firm about your relationship and very supportive to what you are doing. Sometimes he should stand out and take the responsibility of certain decisions, even if that's your idea.
I suggest you to raise this issue very seriously to your boyfriend, and tell him that if the relationship between you and his parents remains like this, the only choice you have is to break up with him. Ask him what he is willing to do, and take action according to his response.
If he is willing to protect you and face his parents, then you may go on together to see how.
If he is too weak on this and you still have to confront his dad or mum personally, then my suggestion is to break up and move on.
A girl's golden time is so short, don't waste it on someone whose family don't get along well with you. I saw live examples in which the girl misses the whole forest when she finally get down from that tree...
He should be very firm about your relationship and very supportive to what you are doing. Sometimes he should stand out and take the responsibility of certain decisions, even if that's your idea.
I suggest you to raise this issue very seriously to your boyfriend, and tell him that if the relationship between you and his parents remains like this, the only choice you have is to break up with him. Ask him what he is willing to do, and take action according to his response.
If he is willing to protect you and face his parents, then you may go on together to see how.
If he is too weak on this and you still have to confront his dad or mum personally, then my suggestion is to break up and move on.
A girl's golden time is so short, don't waste it on someone whose family don't get along well with you. I saw live examples in which the girl misses the whole forest when she finally get down from that tree...
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