如果是你，你会怎么做最近心里很烦燥，可又不知道该怎么跟人说，发个贴问问大家意见：
我有一个大学女同学，单身，大学时候关系还不错，其实毕业以后我们交往也不是特别密切，通常一两个月会约见一次面，算不得密友。通常吃饭也好唱歌也好我一向都是带老公一起的。所以跟我老公也算很熟。
最近她老找我老公帮忙介绍工作，帮忙定机票，帮忙买东西，而且每次都一堆麻烦事，虽然这些事情我都知道，但他们是单线联系，具体什么情况他们不说我也不知道。老公也偶有抱怨，说你那朋友怎么这么麻烦，但她叫他做什么，他又很积极的去帮忙。我都不知道他到底是卖我的面子，还是她的面子。
照理说这种事情，我吃醋也犯不着，只是觉得心里有点不舒服，也不知道该跟谁说，如果说给朋友听，那这朋友估计就没法做了，如果说给老公听，老公肯定觉得我不信任他。
如果你是男生，麻烦分析一下我老公的立场，如果你是女生，麻烦分析一下对方女生的立场。
难道真的是我太小心眼了吗？
Your husband has the responsibility to notice this issue in advance.
and to discuss with you, before you feel depressed. Therefore it's rightful for him to pay for part of this break of trust. Don't hind too much of your feeling before you can express it peacefully.
Luckly everything was not so late.
There are some problems with the communication within you the couple.
You should take this chance to refine the art of communication and tighten your bond. Things like this happen in marriage. As long it can be solved successfully, you can turn bad to really good. I think in this way.
Luckly everything was not so late.
There are some problems with the communication within you the couple.
You should take this chance to refine the art of communication and tighten your bond. Things like this happen in marriage. As long it can be solved successfully, you can turn bad to really good. I think in this way.
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