and to discuss with you, before you feel depressed. Therefore it's rightful for him to pay for part of this break of trust. Don't hind too much of your feeling before you can express it peacefully.
Luckly everything was not so late.
There are some problems with the communication within you the couple.
You should take this chance to refine the art of communication and tighten your bond. Things like this happen in marriage. As long it can be solved successfully, you can turn bad to really good. I think in this way.