网上看到的，类似这里给家用还学费，一言难尽原文：（目前reddit原帖已被本人删除） I have 280k in medical school loans. My wife has 0 student loan. My parents agreed to pay off my loans so I can save on paying interest. My wife knew about these loans prior to marriage and understood I would need to pay my parents back. My wife now does not think it’s fair she came with no student loans. I make around 6x more than my wife bc of my education. My wife thinks her parents are being punished for having paid off all her education (college and masters). My wife also points out her parents helped substantially in raising our two kids for the last 5 years (cooking, cleaning, taking the babies at night, live in babysitting, etc) while we work. I owe my parents 280k. Wife wants us to pay her parents 280k as well. Edit: Wife’s parents paid around 200k of her education which we are not expected to pay back. Wife’s parents are well off financially and do not need money. Wife parents love their daughter and wanted to help w (more...)

债务发生在前不假问题是现在还债的钱是夫妻共同财产。这个事无解。要不说门当户对最重要。

非常同意你说的理性思维，不要道德绑架。

非常同意你说的理性思维，不要道德绑架。

同样的，你父母要求回报那我也可以替父母要求一个回报， 拿200k随便买个什么保险也好，既然你要划清楚，那大家都划清楚 父母的情分要回来不过分吧，拿夫妻共同财产贴补父母还有理了， 这个wife既然能讲出这个话，这钱必然也不是老公一家吃糠咽菜省下来的，要不po主肯定自己说了，哪有什么“背后的故事” 以为谁稀罕医生的title