really a nice piece of writtingcan't resist my temptation of leaving some words on such a post. it is indeed also a good bench mark for guys, either single or attached, to do some self-reflections. At least i hope i don't fall into any of these categories. short maybe, one can't really modify his genetical make up, but i still believe it is something that can be made up for through other qualities. i would suggest you to be patient and calm down. don't appear to be too desperate in the mate-searching process. at least from this piece of writting, i feel you can be an attractive girl, with humor and thoughts, frank and open-minded. i believe the GUY is just around the corner. Open up your eyes and look around, maybe he is also somewhere around, looking at you... :) wish you good luck! 姐姐加油！