同学，其实剩下的还很多。。年轻而有思想、美丽而不虚荣、贤慧而又知书达礼的在新加坡的中国女孩
年轻的有很多
有思想的也不少
年轻的至少50%都美丽
有思想的至少80%都不虚荣
会洗碗做饭的就被人叫做贤惠
知书达理那个叫做表面功夫
watercooler倒是很对。这样的单身女孩子不少，不谈恋爱的原因除了机遇大概就是眼界和野心了。
听他们瞎掰，还剩很多？放眼望去，没剩几个好的。
现在要想找这样的，至少也得比我小5岁。本人属鸡，81年的。
兄弟我们目标相同，共勉！
兄弟我们目标相同，共勉！
听他们瞎掰，还剩很多？放眼望去，没剩几个好的。
不会吧，你的高中同班同学不是挺好的？是太高了,还是心太高了？虽然不一定配你啦， 举个例子而已。
以我们专业这么悬殊的男女比例（虽然我们那时候，自己专业的人不多，但我不认为你认识的人少），你考虑一下为什么没找到啊。。。
你不能要求女生都是完美的，你看看自己是不是也完美？理想与现实要分清一些。
我在这里不想多说你什么，只是，要把心态放好，不要别人说两句你就开始急。
you always think i'm looking for perfect match.
Com'on, I'm not, ok? I fully understand what you mean, however, I don't think I'll just fall in love for a girl I don't even like to get along with. Nevertheless, there are persons you think who can only be your friends like Eugenia.
I kept myself available almost all the time duirng 9 years staying in Singapore. Yet some people still think i'm a casanova. What the hell!
I have met girls I like, but they don't like me, so that's the end! Life's not always at your favor.
However, I can tell you I will not lower my standard because once you were into a relationship that you don't satisfy and you meet sb. else you feel better with later, you will be in deep shit. Many of my friends have had this situation and they were pissed off, struggling hard to get out of it. They always feel regretful. That's why I'm not going to repeat their failures by just keeping my standard at my will. It may cost my whole life searching for a soulmate, yet it's definitely worth it once you find one.
I kept myself available almost all the time duirng 9 years staying in Singapore. Yet some people still think i'm a casanova. What the hell!
I have met girls I like, but they don't like me, so that's the end! Life's not always at your favor.
However, I can tell you I will not lower my standard because once you were into a relationship that you don't satisfy and you meet sb. else you feel better with later, you will be in deep shit. Many of my friends have had this situation and they were pissed off, struggling hard to get out of it. They always feel regretful. That's why I'm not going to repeat their failures by just keeping my standard at my will. It may cost my whole life searching for a soulmate, yet it's definitely worth it once you find one.
记住。最好反省自己。你下面回帖上来就说fully understand，但是 看看你说的话，你根本没fully understand.
不用猜我是谁，但是和你打过交道的人觉得你真的是个怪人(这是我选的最轻的说法，重的就不方便说了)
如果人们都这么觉得，你不该反省一下自己吗？
你9年里唯一不单身的时候，算什么呢？你找到了然后又推翻了？以后难道不会这样吗？
在这个版不成功的，或者在生活中找不成功的，都是自我感觉良好，别人都不understand 自己的。
或者你还没在别人说完，就说i fully understand.
Listen more , think more and talk less. please.
I know I've made mistakes and I always feel sorry for that.
However, do you feel that judging me from what I did not what I'm doing is also not correct.
People do change because of what they have experienced.
No matter who you are, I'm sorry for those who I hurt before, deeply from my heart.
People do change because of what they have experienced.
No matter who you are, I'm sorry for those who I hurt before, deeply from my heart.
我知道你会这么回。人家不适合你， 不一定不适合别人啊，所以不要说到所有剩下的女孩子都不好，行不行？
you may not change your standard, you could change yourself somehow, i do not think people's mindset could not be changed. you are looking for a nice girl, but you could not demand too much. you must look for some key points you most care of. if you could find someone you like, and not only one could be your potential gf, you may have to think why they do not wanna accept you.
yeah, I've thought of those already.
It's not that I'm not doing anything. However, love sometimes is blind as well. You can also say that I'm not fast enough, hehe.
。。这里我不想diagnose你，你看看你的回应的第一句话就是‘I KNOW I..... 虽然是种道歉的话，但是听上去不sincere....起码给人感觉是这样的。
好好想想。。
：p
对我不客气的人，我没必要对他们太客气。
我知道你会这么回。人家不适合你， 不一定不适合别人啊，所以不要说到所有剩下的女孩子都不好，行不行？
you may not change your standard, you could change yourself somehow, i do not think people's mindset could not be changed. you are looking for a nice girl, but you could not demand too much. you must look for some key points you most care of. if you could find someone you like, and not only one could be your potential gf, you may have to think why they do not wanna accept you.
跟你讲讲拒绝我的女生的理由，你就知道这跟我一点关系也没有了。
第一个，她妈不喜欢上海人，偏偏我就是。她为了孝顺她妈就没选我。
第二个，她觉得我不够可爱。
第三个，她是基督徒，不能跟不信的人发展关系，我也不会傻到只为了她就信教吧。
第二个，她觉得我不够可爱。
第三个，她是基督徒，不能跟不信的人发展关系，我也不会傻到只为了她就信教吧。
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