发个帖子让大家讨论阿最近我有个朋友,国大医学系毕业的,现在在医院实习。新加坡人。他让我帮他介绍女朋友。而且强调是不要有过established 的relationship的。 我问他为什么呢。他解释说established relationship的分手后和离婚都没有什么区别。很汗。刚才看了这里的几个帖子,很多男生都强调不要established relationship的~ 这种分手真的和离婚没有分别么?那么这样的话,如果分手的时候不是女生受的伤害比男生大恨多么。因为女生have lost so called market value?
to be fair, that's could be considered as "premium"
From pure market theory, when things get rare (not necessary good or better), people pay for scarity and the goods enjoy resulted premium...
For some, if not all, ladies, 20-24 are "golden age". So there is time value as well.
Personally, i don't value that premium or time value much.. Guess love could never ever be valued as goods.