the beauty of diversityWhat an interesting article to read. First let me apologize for not reading every reply in this thread. (BTW, I don’t find the interface of huasing very user friendly, especially when reading the replies; and I hate sgchinese too, as it keeps freezing my firefox.) I wish I could have followed this thread since it was posted, but, too bad, I just came back to Singapore about a month ago. And maybe it’s my problem, but I have visited this page many times and this thread didn’t catch my attention until today. Well, it’s probably my bad, as I simply ignored all ‘ding zhi’s assuming that they are all advertisements. Now, before I give my comments, let me briefly share my experiences during the past 4 weeks in Singapore on, of course, the so-called online dating. I’m honored to get a chance to meet about 10 nice ladies, all through huasing. Well, some may find it a very small sample, especially those like bbcat who may have received over 100 letters; but to me, it’s a fantasti (more...)

wah, impressive........i think you are the first person who replies my topic in english in considerable length. I admire that! It's definitely interesting to know a guy's perspective, actually the original intention of my post is exactly that, i wanna know what the guys are thinking while going for online dating, because i am not sure whether i am being too judgmental or the guys i met are totally "unique". Thanks for the insight, and i really appreciate it. After the online dating experience, i have going into phase 2, which is speed dating. That's a refreshing experience for me too! Maybe i will write another article about that, hahaha..........

突然想到。。。 曾经有个朋友对我说过，很多女生吃饭，穿衣，买东西都那么挑，到找男朋友或者老公的时候怎么可能不挑！ 后来想想的确如此，而且现在是供方市场，感觉任何一个女生周围都有一大堆跃跃欲试的男生，她们不挑，岂不是对不起自己！ 不知道是男人的悲哀，还是女人的悲哀。。。 PS：只是突然想到的，和LZ没有关系，不是针对LZ，呵呵。。。

The article is well written. Thanks for sharing.I can see you are a sincere person. I wish to make friends with you. If you like, you can contact me by email hairong04@hotmail.com. Good luck for your searching of BF.

突然想到。。。 曾经有个朋友对我说过，很多女生吃饭，穿衣，买东西都那么挑，到找男朋友或者老公的时候怎么可能不挑！ 后来想想的确如此，而且现在是供方市场，感觉任何一个女生周围都有一大堆跃跃欲试的男生，她们不挑，岂不是对不起自己！ 不知道是男人的悲哀，还是女人的悲哀。。。 PS：只是突然想到的，和LZ没有关系，不是针对LZ，呵呵。。。

There is nothing wrong to be shorter or youngerMarried, boring, or insincere guys are not accepted. But I dont think short and young guys are unacceptable . Many great man are not tall at all, such as napoleon, Deng xiao ping. ( the most important part of the body is above the neck) Younger is not sin to be a man, in current world, more and more young guys become mature enough at their young age. They knew much better than some "old" guys. In fact, I do encourage girls who could not find their Mr.Right at this time, dont set so high standards to the fellow men. Instead of outside appearance, you need to see the inside beautify of the man. Be a smart girl, find your dream guy who really cares you and loves you and will die for you . FYI, I am 25, married , I am not the kind of man in any categories you referred. And I do wish everyone can find their dream guy and girl in their life.

奉劝一句， 不要把自己看得太高了否这很容易奔40的

每次想起40 左右 单生female 朋友，都感到很心酸

在新加坡是男人比较牛，20%的女人终身嫁不出！没牛对地方！

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