我所说的ritual是世俗社会中的一种ritual。ritual in the secular and everyday life. 可以参见Goffman: Interaction Ritual: Essays on face-to-face Behavior, 1967. ritual means liminal place. you have been detached from the old status but not yet attached to the new, and reincorporation, in which the passage from one status to another is consummated symbolically! in this sense,去外面旅游，去博物馆参观等等，都是ritual! 和你说的什么礼乐根本不是一回事！我都说了，你说的是戏，我说的是“看戏”这种行为！别总以为别人说的不对。