最近在帮一个很大很大的客户做网络搭建和配置，有150多台交换机，300多个AP，还有若干防火墙，路由器，IPS等等需要做。

由于building还没有TOP，现场进进出出需要戴安全帽，今天由于下大雨，自己和同事淋了一身的雨，在工地上把帽子脱了让头发干的更快，结果被一个极品的security officer看到了，然后就是.....

还好老板知道原委后，主动要我写个email说明情况，然后出面帮忙说话

具体情况在我的email里, 老板名字用xx代替


Hi xx,

This afternoon me and Bryan were mounting the switches at FSC L2 Right WC. Because we need to dispose the switch boxes we opened in the morning for FSC L2 Left WC into the waste collection point about 200 meters away from FSC entrance, we were unfortunately caught in the heavy rain for several times, and also because there are two Lantro guys already inside the tiny WC which is less than 5 square meters, so we took off our helmet to cool off our hairs as well as to free up some space for our mounting work (the space between the open rack and Comnet rack can barely allow a thin person to step inside, let alone wearing the helmet).

Because the WC is too small to do the preparation work (open the switches boxes, install the rack mount ear etc.), we decided to do it just 1 meter outside of the WC, and we were 'caught' by the 1st site officer who just came to us and took the photo for both me and Bryan without giving any verbal warning. Me and Bryan reliased the issue and we put on out helmet immediately. After that I went to CH server room to get the AP mount kits for Lantro, and the 2nd site officer stopped me on the way.

I had no idea why he stopped me and after I gave him my NAGa site pass, he was not using any rude tone but rather SHOUTING at me like crazy in Mandarin: "你以为这里是什么地方，哈? 你以为是你爸爸的地盘啊？你以为你想怎样就怎样啊？告诉你我才是这里的老大！", after this he took another photo of me and my pass, and after he returned the pass to me, I heard him whispered "F**K OFF !", I was really shocked and enraged but I didn't confront him or reply him even a single word.

I know he was doing his job, I also have no problem with the penalty because it was my fault at first place, but the way he communicated to me made me really feel threatened and demeaned, we were also doing our work, we will be working onsite for another 3 to 4 months, we do cherish mutual respect instead of a hostile work environment! Since he can behave like this to a person he never met before, I can't imagine how arrogant and rude he will be in the future.

Regards
Parry

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我给老板的email里说的很清楚：

I know he was doing his job, I also have no problem with the penalty because it was my fault at first place。

我的观点也很明了;

but the way he communicated to me made me really feel threatened and demeaned, we were also doing our work, we will be working onsite for another 3 to 4 months, we do cherish mutual respect instead of a hostile work environment!

第一次打照面就这么拽，脾气大的吓人，连我老板和大老板都看不下去了。

我给老板的email里说的很清楚：

I know he was doing his job, I also have no problem with the penalty because it was my fault at first place。

我的观点也很明了;

but the way he communicated to me made me really feel threatened and demeaned, we were also doing our work, we will be working onsite for another 3 to 4 months, we do cherish mutual respect instead of a hostile work environment! Since he can behave like this to a person he never met before, I can't imagine how arrogant and rude he will be in the future.

你的这番话我也会说

如果是国内换做年轻几年的自己估计早就干架了

谁做人没有点血性是不？

还好老板是有点那种行侠仗义的性格的坡人，很明事理，该批评我的批评，该出面顶回去他也做了。

经常做大型项目，新加坡的onsite security officer我接触的已经不是10个，20个了，其中也有一些很随和，很聊的来的，有什么问题事前说清楚了，大家都是彼此尊重，毕竟都是为了工作。

这样的极品真心第一次见到，要和他不打不成交？至少我做不到。

阁下的意见和心态有积极，值得学习的一面，这点我承认。

但是有些东西真心不是 “如果怎样。。。我会。。。”，没亲身经历过的永远体会不到。如果今天换做另外的人跟我遇到同样的问题，我一样能用“严于律己，宽于待人”的中心思想给他讲一大堆道理，因为我毕竟只是一个旁观者。

有些亏吃了换个心态去看是大智慧的表现，这点我相信。

也许阁下年轻时也热血过，冲动过，栽过跟斗，吃过亏。现在有如此的气度和眼光自然是长久以来被无数的“极品”给磨练出来的，所以阁下能如此洒脱地甚至带着些许感激的心态去看待过去在生命中出现过的那些“极品们“，并把自己如今的心得毫无保留地传授给晚辈，这点我还是很佩服的。

但是做人做事也有原则和底线，古往今来事业上有很大作为的人不仅只会注重于”发展“和”做事“，脾气和血性也是必要的，一直隐忍的老实人虽说不会大起大落，但也不一定就能成大事。本人业余爱好中国象棋，中学时也曾经无师自通，通过自己的努力拿到过除了自己外，全是科班选手参加的省赛的前三，评过省二级运动员。虽然一个区区的象棋省级棋手的荣誉提不上什么人生的赢家，但是自己是怎么一路来仅靠自己的努力拿到这样的荣誉，自己心里很清楚：不服输的血性。在国内时，我小时候身边接触过不少棋友，一些人从小性格懦弱，经常被对手羞辱，被父母数落不务正业，然后随之而来的就是对自我能力的怀疑和棋力的止步不前，以及事业上的甘于平庸。当然也有在骂声中成为大师的棋手的例子，就如阁下所言，他们经得起磨练和考验，内心坚定，目标明确，所以阁下的这个观点我不否定。


棋如人生，人生如棋，今天我在职场路之一的技术上取得的成绩和我当年对象棋比赛胜利的渴望密不可分，做人，真的要拿出点血性，以及自尊心。

倒是老板这么support我让我觉得这个老板很不错。

话说我们公司sales确实有能耐

阁下之前的高谈阔论恕我愚钝，没有完全明白。看了阁下举得这个例子后，我似乎明白了。

也许这位阁下所谓的“莽撞人”并没直接得罪阁下本人，但是既然阁下有如此沧海横流，英雄自风流般的洒脱，自然不削与莽撞人共事，于是巧设妙计，不用亲自出面就能为民除害，并bonus加倍，可谓一箭双雕，名利双收。如此气度，如此城府，晚辈实在是佩服。不是“阿拉18你9岁”，和阁下的阅历相比，阁下18时，鄙人应该还没断奶。

呵呵

麻烦阁下帮忙指点，帮我的email修改润色一下：）

和某些道貌岸然，自以为多吃了几年饭就在那倚老卖老，张口“英雄气度”，闭口“风流洒脱”，自以为高谈阔论，气度不凡，无人能及，实则是简单几句话就会被人激怒的所谓killer（笑）。还好风行兄的一句“你不觉得他逻辑前后矛盾吗？”点拨了我。

和这种一把年纪，还争强好胜的老uncle争论确实很愚蠢，让你见笑了。

不过GP不到0.5m。 哎，搞技术的对这些数字没那么敏感，也不知道公司算挣的多还是少。

不大不小的本地公司

有意思 不过过都过去了 complain一下就行了 我也不是那种睚眦必报的人

有的会好言提醒，有的话说的重一点，但是是带着玩笑的口吻的说的。 像这种上来就摆出一副黑色会老大架势的绝对稀有，不然我也不会叫他极品了

还是一样，该批评我的就批评，该出面帮忙讨回公道的老板也做了，现在想想老板说的对，自己的错误应当汲取教训，但也没必要和这种“undiplomatic"的粗人争论太多，事过就了，此事就此尘埃落定。

Dear Parry,

Thank you for highlighting your concerns. I understand how you feel because
I was also "reprimanded" by the FSC Safety and I believe it was the same
guy you mentioned. I do agree that professionally this is not the way to
treat us.

I actually had a chat with one of the M&E supervisors and Lantro's Safety
Officer this morning about yesterday's incident and also to highlight the
way we were treated. Both of them highlighted that this is a construction
site and unfortunately, there ARE "undiplomatic" people/supervisor around.
It's part of their job character or usually, they are being treated the
same by their boss so hence, the downstream effect. The M&E supervisor
offered his apologies (on behalf of the company) and thanked us for our
patience. However, he did iterate that we should be adhering to the site
safety rules regardless.

To avoid such incident in future, please ensure that you wear your PPE
especially in open/exposed area