不会吧，你的高中同班同学不是挺好的？是太高了,还是心太高了？虽然不一定配你啦， 举个例子而已。 以我们专业这么悬殊的男女比例（虽然我们那时候，自己专业的人不多，但我不认为你认识的人少），你考虑一下为什么没找到啊。。。 你不能要求女生都是完美的，你看看自己是不是也完美？理想与现实要分清一些。 我在这里不想多说你什么，只是，要把心态放好，不要别人说两句你就开始急。

听他们瞎掰，还剩很多？放眼望去，没剩几个好的。现在要想找这样的，至少也得比我小5岁。本人属鸡，81年的。 兄弟我们目标相同，共勉！

同学,长江后浪推前浪

记住。最好反省自己。你下面回帖上来就说fully understand，但是 看看你说的话，你根本没fully understand. 不用猜我是谁，但是和你打过交道的人觉得你真的是个怪人(这是我选的最轻的说法，重的就不方便说了) 如果人们都这么觉得，你不该反省一下自己吗？ 你9年里唯一不单身的时候，算什么呢？你找到了然后又推翻了？以后难道不会这样吗？ 在这个版不成功的，或者在生活中找不成功的，都是自我感觉良好，别人都不understand 自己的。 或者你还没在别人说完，就说i fully understand. Listen more , think more and talk less. please.

听他们瞎掰，还剩很多？放眼望去，没剩几个好的。现在要想找这样的，至少也得比我小5岁。本人属鸡，81年的。 兄弟我们目标相同，共勉！

难。祝好。

you always think i'm looking for perfect match.Com'on, I'm not, ok? I fully understand what you mean, however, I don't think I'll just fall in love for a girl I don't even like to get along with. Nevertheless, there are persons you think who can only be your friends like Eugenia. I kept myself available almost all the time duirng 9 years staying in Singapore. Yet some people still think i'm a casanova. What the hell! I have met girls I like, but they don't like me, so that's the end! Life's not always at your favor. However, I can tell you I will not lower my standard because once you were into a relationship that you don't satisfy and you meet sb. else you feel better with later, you will be in deep shit. Many of my friends have had this situation and they were pissed off, struggling hard to get out of it. They always feel regretful. That's why I'm not going to repeat their failures by just keeping my standard at my will. It may cost my whole life searching for a soulmate, yet it's definitely worth it on

I know I've made mistakes and I always feel sorry for that.However, do you feel that judging me from what I did not what I'm doing is also not correct. People do change because of what they have experienced. No matter who you are, I'm sorry for those who I hurt before, deeply from my heart.

我知道你会这么回。人家不适合你， 不一定不适合别人啊，所以不要说到所有剩下的女孩子都不好，行不行？ you may not change your standard, you could change yourself somehow, i do not think people's mindset could not be changed. you are looking for a nice girl, but you could not demand too much. you must look for some key points you most care of. if you could find someone you like, and not only one could be your potential gf, you may have to think why they do not wanna accept you.

。。这里我不想diagnose你，你看看你的回应的第一句话就是‘I KNOW I..... 虽然是种道歉的话，但是听上去不sincere....起码给人感觉是这样的。 好好想想。。

我知道你会这么回。人家不适合你， 不一定不适合别人啊，所以不要说到所有剩下的女孩子都不好，行不行？ you may not change your standard, you could change yourself somehow, i do not think people's mindset could not be changed. you are looking for a nice girl, but you could not demand too much. you must look for some key points you most care of. if you could find someone you like, and not only one could be your potential gf, you may have to think why they do not wanna accept you.

同学，其实剩下的还很多。。可惜第一条不知道还能不能算得上。 有的时候是机遇问题。 楼主加油。。。。 虽然偶不是很喜欢你在其他版的帖子。正视自己也是很重要的阿。

还是送你一首歌好了Dido的Life for rent http://www.channelwolf.com/?q=node/61